“It is a man’s own mind, not his enemy or foe, that lures him to evil ways.”

-Buddha

Everyone’s responsible for his or her own actions. No matter what. Unless you are at gunpoint, then you have no excuses for your actions. Always take responsibility for what happens in your own life, and spread that lesson to others trying to tell you otherwise. Creating explanations for why something happened will only prolong the lesson you learn from your mistakes. Accept that you’ve done wrong, learn from it, and move on with your life.